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Thomas May

LCSW

Thomas May, LCSW

Therapist in California

Thomas is a LCSW therapist in California.

  • 41+ years of experience
  • Focus areas include Relationship issues, Family conflicts
  • Approaches include Client-Centered Therapy, Existential Therapy
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About Thomas

Thomas May is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) with more than four decades of clinical experience helping people navigate significant life changes and emotional challenges. He focuses on relationship dynamics, family conflict, grief, and self-esteem, guiding clients toward clearer communication and renewed personal growth. Drawing on a compassionate, depth-oriented style, he works with individuals facing midlife transitions, workplace stress, and social difficulties, offering steady support through complex emotional landscapes.

He emphasizes practical skills and emotional insight, helping clients strengthen communication, reduce isolation, and reconnect with a sense of purpose. Thomas has particular experience supporting men through caregiving stress, chronic health concerns, and the emotional work of healing after loss or major change. His approach centers on understanding each person’s distinct story and tailoring guidance to meet their goals.

Committed to a respectful and empathetic therapeutic relationship, Thomas provides a space for exploration of feelings, development of resilience, and cultivation of self-compassion. Whether addressing social anxiety, workplace challenges, or deeper questions about life direction, he offers personalized care aimed at helping people move toward greater well-being and meaningful change.

Client-Centered and Existential Approaches Delivered Online



Thomas May integrates client-centered work with existential perspectives to support people through major life questions and emotional challenges. Client-centered therapy focuses on listening deeply, reflecting a person’s experience, and creating a respectful, nonjudgmental environment. It helps with concerns like self-esteem, relationship problems, and developing stronger communication skills. Existential therapy explores meaning, choice, and responsibility, guiding people who are facing midlife shifts, life purpose questions, or the emotional impact of illness and loss.

Finding the best approach is a collaborative process. Thomas works with each person to identify their goals, values, and preferences, and he adapts methods as therapy unfolds so the work fits the client’s needs rather than following a fixed formula.

Online therapy makes these approaches accessible through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging. Those options offer flexibility for scheduling around work, caregiving, or health limitations and allow continuity of care across different circumstances. For many people, remote sessions make it easier to maintain momentum in therapy while balancing everyday responsibilities.

Frequently asked questions

How much experience does Thomas May have?

Thomas May has 41 years of experience in clinical practice.

Is Thomas May a licensed therapist?

Yes. He holds the credential LCSW, which stands for Licensed Clinical Social Worker. License details: CA LCSW 22255.

In which languages does Thomas May provide therapy?

Thomas May provides therapy in English.

Where is Thomas May located?

Thomas May is located in California.

How can I work with Thomas May as my therapist?

You can work with Thomas May through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.

Does Thomas May work with international clients?

Thomas May does not currently work with international clients.

How much does therapy with Thomas May cost?

The cost of therapy can vary depending on factors such as your location and the therapist's availability. Sessions are billed through a subscription that can be canceled at any time, for any reason. For current details, click the "Start Therapy" button on this page.

How can I get started with therapy?

Getting started is quick and straightforward. Click the "Start Therapy" button and complete a short questionnaire that helps match you with your therapist. Depending on availability, you can then schedule your first session, which may take place by phone, video call, live chat, or in-app messaging.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefSelf esteemCoping with life changes

Experience

41+ years

Credentials

California

Languages

English

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