Neil Martin, LCSW

Neil Martin is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) based in California with 25 years of professional experience supporting people through addiction and intimacy-related challenges. He focuses his practice on porn and sex addiction while also addressing related concerns such as codependency, process addictions like gambling and exercise, drug and alcohol addiction, infidelity, and broader questions of sexuality. His approach is rooted in respect, sensitivity, and compassion, creating a space free of judgment where clients can explore difficult issues and begin healing.

He individualizes treatment plans to fit each person’s unique situation, tailoring sessions to meet specific needs and goals. Neil emphasizes practical, person-centered care that meets clients where they are and supports gradual change. Taking the first step toward a more fulfilling life can feel daunting, and he offers steady support and guidance throughout that process. With extensive experience and a focus on addictions and intimacy-related concerns, Neil helps clients build healthier relationships with themselves and others while working toward recovery and improved well-being.

Approach-Focused Online Therapy for Intimacy and Addiction

Neil uses Client-Centered Therapy to create an empathetic, nonjudgmental environment where the client’s perspective guides the work. This approach helps people feel heard and understood while they clarify goals and build motivation for change. Emotionally-Focused Therapy, or EFT, focuses on identifying and working with emotion patterns that affect relationships and intimacy. EFT can be especially useful for addressing attachment concerns, trust issues after infidelity, and the emotional drivers of addictive behaviors. Mindfulness Therapy teaches present-moment awareness and self-regulation skills, offering practical tools to manage urges, reduce reactivity, and support long-term recovery.

Choosing the right approach is a collaborative process. Neil will work with each person to assess needs, preferences, and goals and then tailor techniques from these approaches to create a treatment plan that fits the individual. This collaborative stance helps ensure the therapy feels relevant and effective for the person seeking help.

Online therapy offers practical flexibility and accessibility. Sessions can occur by video call, phone, live chat, or text-based messaging, which makes it easier to fit care into a busy schedule or to continue work between appointments. Licensed professionals can deliver these approaches effectively in virtual formats, allowing consistent progress without the need for in-person visits.