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John Alilovich

LMFT

John Alilovich, LMFT

Therapist in California

John is a LMFT therapist in California.

  • 40+ years of experience
  • Focus areas include Relationship issues, Trauma and abuse
  • Approaches include Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Attachment-Based Therapy
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About John

John Alilovich is a California-based therapist with four decades of clinical experience who has supported individuals, couples, and families through a wide range of challenges. He holds an LMFT - a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist credential - and spent more than fifteen years working within the county mental health department where he focused on substance addiction, domestic violence, relationship and marriage issues, multiple forms of abuse, parenting concerns, and the needs of LGBTQ families. During that time he also developed a private practice that has continued throughout his career, enabling him to work with a diverse array of clients for nearly forty years.

His therapeutic style is warm, personal, and collaborative. He approaches each person as the expert on their own life and prioritizes building a respectful, compassionate relationship that honors individual differences. Together with clients he establishes practical goals and explores solutions tailored to their circumstances. He draws on a variety of methods - including Emotion Focused Therapy, Internal Family Systems, mindfulness practices, and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy - and matches techniques to what will be most helpful for each person.

Choosing to begin therapy is a meaningful step, and John aims to provide steady, empathic support as clients work toward greater well-being and more satisfying relationships. He welcomes those seeking guidance and companionship on that journey.

Therapeutic Approaches and Online Care

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people clarify their values and take committed action toward meaningful goals while learning to live with difficult thoughts and feelings. It is often useful for anxiety, depression, stress, and life transitions. Attachment-Based Therapy focuses on patterns in relationships that developed in early life and aims to strengthen emotional bonds and improve how people relate to partners, family members, and themselves - it can be especially helpful for intimacy, abandonment, and family-of-origin concerns. Client-Centered Therapy centers the client’s experience, offering a supportive, nonjudgmental space where the therapist follows the client’s lead and helps them find their own solutions, which can aid self-esteem, coping, and personal growth.

Finding the right approach is part of the therapeutic process. John works collaboratively with each person to assess needs, preferences, and goals, and together they determine which methods or combination of methods will best support progress. This collaborative stance helps tailor care to the individual rather than applying a one-size-fits-all model.

Online therapy with John is offered through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging, providing flexibility for different schedules and comfort levels. These options make it easier to maintain continuity of care during busy lives, when travel is difficult, or when clients are located in other regions. Licensed professionals can deliver effective therapeutic support through these formats while adapting interventions to suit the online setting.

Frequently asked questions

How much experience does John Alilovich have?

John Alilovich has 40 years of experience in clinical practice, including work in both county mental health services and private practice.

Is John Alilovich a licensed therapist?

Yes. He holds the LMFT credential. License details are CA LMFT MFT27006.

In which languages does John Alilovich provide therapy?

John provides therapy in English.

Where is John Alilovich located?

John is located in California.

How can I work with John Alilovich as my therapist?

You can work with John through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.

Does John Alilovich work with international clients?

Yes, John works with international clients.

How much does therapy with John Alilovich cost?

The cost of therapy can vary depending on factors such as your location and the therapist's availability. Sessions are billed through a subscription that can be canceled at any time, for any reason. For current details, click the "Start Therapy" button on this page.

How can I get started with therapy?

Getting started is quick and straightforward. Click the "Start Therapy" button and complete a short questionnaire that helps match you with your therapist. Depending on availability, you can then schedule your first session by phone, video call, live chat, or in-app messaging.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsLGBTFamily conflictsGriefEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingADHD

Experience

40+ years

Credentials

California

Languages

English

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