Sueli Montilha, BACP, NCPS

Sueli Montilha is a psychotherapeutic counsellor with a strong clinical and academic background, combining specialist training in contemporary psychosexual therapy with practical experience in the charity sector and the NHS. She qualified with an Advanced Professional Diploma in Psychotherapeutic Counselling, holds a CPCAB Certificate in Counselling Children, completed a Post Graduate Certificate in Low Intensity Psychological Interventions, and earned an MSc in Contemporary Psychosexual Therapy with distinction. She also holds professional credentials BACP and NCPS, which indicate recognised standing with counselling bodies.

Sueli has developed extensive experience supporting people affected by complex trauma, including sexual trauma, and common mental health concerns such as anxiety and depression. She also works with relationship and communication difficulties and a wide range of sexual wellbeing and dysfunction issues, including erectile and ejaculatory problems, arousal and desire concerns, painful intercourse, and difficulties with orgasm.

Originally from Brazil and having lived in several countries, she brings a multicultural perspective to her work and embeds diversity and intersectionality into therapeutic practice. Working from a bio-psychosocial framework and aware of GSRD - Gender, Sex, and Relationship Diversity - she supports people of all genders, sexualities, and relationship structures, including couples, throuples, and multiple partnered relationships. She offers supportive, empowering therapy focused on clients work toward improved wellbeing.

Psychosexual and Trauma-Informed Care Online

Psychosexual therapy focuses on sexual wellbeing and function, exploring physical, emotional, and relationship factors that affect desire, arousal, performance, and intimacy. It is often helpful for people experiencing erectile or ejaculatory difficulties, painful intercourse, orgasm concerns, and broader sexual wellbeing questions.

A trauma-informed approach recognises the impact of complex and sexual trauma and prioritises safety, pacing, and respect for each person's experience. This approach supports recovery from trauma-related symptoms and helps people rebuild trust, communication, and emotional regulation.

Sueli also uses low-intensity psychological interventions designed to provide structured, practical strategies for managing anxiety, low mood, and stress. These approaches can be a useful first step or part of a longer therapeutic plan depending on the client needs.

Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. Sueli works with clients to identify goals, preferences, and the techniques that best fit their circumstances, adjusting the plan as therapy progresses.

Online therapy offers flexibility and accessibility through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging. These options make it easier to fit therapy into busy lives, maintain continuity when in-person meetings are difficult, and access licensed professionals from a range of locations, while still receiving personalised therapeutic care.